Just over three weeks ago, I made a post about an outing with two friends, well Friend 2, the expectant mom gave birth to the adorable Henry 2 1/2 weeks ago. She has a blog which you can click on here, called Frugal and Fit and no surprise, the pace of her posts has slowed a lot.
One rule of thumb for getting things done with a newborn is to expect that anything that used to take one day, will now take a week. The meaning of busy and tired are dramatically redefined. Best wishes to the happy but tired parents! And welcome to the world, Henry.
In our household, the 2 1/2 week mark was when my husband began to panic, thinking that I might never get back to running. Or perhaps, thinking that a nice run was all I needed to perk up a bit. He insisted that I go for a run with the stern directive that he was kicking me out of the house and locking the door for 45 minutes. That would have been early January and I can still remember the weird spacey sensation of running in the cold, weighed down by an otherworldly fatigue.
I ran erratically after that, until week six. I was elated to discover that the Central YMCA had a childcare service, not too common at that time, and those places with childcare generally did not accept infants until at least 6 months.
So I was there on my son’s 6 week birthday, ready to produce his birth certificate. I was there every weekday, arriving dressed to run and skipping a shower as I only felt comfortable leaving him for 30 minutes. These 30 minute runs took place on the tiny indoor track as parents were not allowed to leave the building and there were no treadmills at the YMCA back then.
I had my son a couple of months after turning 32. The age at which my mom had the youngest in our family of six kids. When I have the time to give justice to the story, I’d like to write about how my mom passed along her love of sports to all her kids.
Thank you mom!